When you’ve decided to start a family, the next step is making decisions about the paths to parenthood—and for queer families, this often means navigating a complex web of options. Adoption, donor conception, surrogacy, fostering—each path brings unique opportunities,...
Deciding whether to become a parent is one of the most profound choices you’ll ever make, especially as a queer person navigating societal pressures and systemic challenges. While it’s a deeply personal decision, for many, there’s also a sense of urgency—a biological...
For queer couples, building a life together offers a unique opportunity to create a partnership free from rigid, traditional gender roles. You can lean into each other’s strengths and preferences to build something truly collaborative. But even in the most intentional relationships,...
Disclaimer: This piece is more direct than most. It’s written from a place of fierce protection for queer families and the dignity we deserve. If someone finds your family “too confusing,” that’s their issue—not yours. This is about naming intellectual and...
As the new year begins, many of us feel drawn to reflect on the past year and set intentions for what’s ahead. But reflection doesn’t have to be tied to the calendar. Whether you do it in January, quarterly, biannually, or whenever life feels out of sync, taking time to pause...
You Will Make Mistakes as a Parent—And That’s Okay
Parenting is one of the most meaningful and challenging journeys we take, yet it comes with an uncomfortable truth: you will make mistakes. The reality is, you won’t always know which decisions were missteps until...
Do you ever feel like your life and family life is running on autopilot, with each day blending into the next? Balancing daily demands while staying true to your values can feel overwhelming.
Without a clear vision, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters, leaving you...
Breaking the Politeness Reflex: Prioritizing Your Child Over Social Expectations
As parents, we want to advocate for our children’s needs and boundaries, but there’s often an internal tug-of-war between what we know we should do and the automatic urge to prioritize...
Navigating the Joy and Challenges of Holidays (and More) Together
Holidays often bring families together, but for queer parents, holiday season can feel like a high-wire act. Before parenting, you might have tolerated microaggressions or side-stepped difficult conversations, but...
When Typical Behaviors Meet Unique Family Dynamics
As queer parents, it’s easy to wonder if your child’s behavior or questions reflect your family’s unique structure. A middle schooler pulling away, a toddler asking tough questions about family dynamics, or a...